Each time seems to be better than the previous! She does not want reciprocation. She has also turned down all my offers for intercourse. As far as I know, she is heterosexual just like me. I am getting a bit frustrated. Also, without going all the way, am I considered a friend with benefits? Or she could have body-image issues. Or she might be unwilling to risk pregnancy. Or she could be intersex or trans and not ready to open up. Any suggestions would be appreciated!
Easily half of the couples I met at a big swingers convention I attended in Las Vegas told me they were Republicans. Good times. I have a loving and devoted husband. Recently, I started a job to get out of the house more and interact with more people. Well, it turns out my new boss is a real hottie. I have a crush on him and often find myself fantasizing about him. Perhaps this is better described as a more productive inlet?
Bonus points if you and your husband are both secure enough in your marriage and cognizant enough of reality to regard crushes on others as normal and, so long as they remain crushes, not a threat to your marriage or commitment.
The other night while my wife and I were watching porn and masturbating together, I suggested we masturbate in front of DirtyRoulette. I briefly explained what the site is about. I replied yes, sometimes—and she was so taken aback, she ended our masturbation session to process it.
There are, of course, some people out there who regard too many things as cheating—fantasizing about others, looking at porn, even non-webcam-or-porn-enhanced masturbation. People who think this way usually regard cheating as unforgivable and, consequently, their relationships are doomed to failure. I have met some women I am interested in who are bi and have husbands or male lovers. If a woman fucks a man, and hours or days later, I fuck that woman with fingers or toys that are later inside of me, can I accidentally get pregnant?
