While male escorts may have very prejudiced reputations and often stereotyped as a whole, there is definitely something more that the job entails making it an interesting choice of study. An extract from the book is as follows. Ryan talks about the backgrounds and reasons why women hire him as a male escort. He also expounds on the deeper role he plays in their lives which is actually therapeutic in nature. As a male escort, Ryan shares that the best part of his job is the people he meets.
Women from different religions, races, shapes, sizes and relationship situation. Reasons such as a woman being afraid her partner would hurt or criticize her for being virgin hence she goes to Ryan for a positive first sexual experience or a woman getting over sexual abuse and wanted to experience having sex again without the trauma or married women who have been disregarded by their husbands for years.
But no. This is why a lesbian went to him to try having sex with the opposite gender, realizes she still preferred women and ticked off an item from her bucket list. Then there are his clients who have sexual issues such as the involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles known as vaginismus. They go to him because they find dating a guy and explaining to him her condition quite difficult to overcome or prepare for.
Because there are no strings attached having done it with a male escort, such clients can ease into sexual activity without worry. Because this job requires a lot of research, planning and customization, escorts usually book only appointments a week. A lot of them also have other lives to live. They also have full control on which clients to accept and entertain or politely decline. A lot of them also set rules and limits which cannot be trespassed otherwise the booking would have to be cancelled.
As much as this profession would be highly satisfying, there are some sacrifices and compromises to be made. Male escorts have admitted that the main problems revolve around emotions and relationships. There would be times that they would develop a deep emotional connection with a client which would eventually turn into a friendship.
