IWPR held its first-ever international retreat in the Hague to discuss current challenges and future opportunities as an organisation driving The oldest profession is alive and well in carefully-concealed brothels and on the streets. I do not enjoy being with men. I hate them. Dressed in jeans and a tee-shirt, with shoulder-length black hair and wearing no makeup, year-old Saida not her real name looked ordinary enough.
But in this highly conservative society, she has sex with men for money, sometimes several times a night. She has been a prostitute for six years, since the day her mother made a deal with a local pimp. A man almost 30 years old was waiting for me. He attacked me right away. It was horrible. I knew nothing; I felt only pain. She told her mother what had happened, but she got no response.
The old woman came again ten days later and took me back to that house. After that I started going on my own and getting money from rich people. She broadens her client base through referrals, and does not have a madam or pimp. Statistics are scattered, and few solid figures exist. But since the fall of the Taleban regime in late , prostitution has become, if not more widespread, at least more open. A police official in the northern province of Jowzjan, speaking on condition of anonymity, said that according to official figures, 2, families in his province alone had resorted to prostitution over the past 10 years.
The true figure is likely much higher. In many cases, prostitution becomes a hereditary trade, passed on from mother to daughter. The Taleban strictly controlled sexual activity, meting out harsh punishments for extra-marital relations and adultery. Married women who had sex outside marriage were stoned to death; others were publicly flogged. But this has not stopped women like Dilbar not her real name , a year-old madam who keeps a brothel in Mazar-e-Sharif. Dilbar is a professional.
She worked as a prostitute for many years, and has passed the trade on to her daughter, who helps her run the brothel. She no longer takes on clients herself. But I help other girls to become prostitutes. I provide the means to make young men happy for a short time. Dilbar has ten girls who operate out of her brothel as well as making house calls on request. She requires a constant supply of new blood for her clientele, who are always seeking fresher delights.
